Wednesday 22 May 2013

KASHMIRI CULTURE -


KASHMIRI CULTURE -


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writes Malik Sameed
The Allah has shaped different categories of homo sapiens all over the world and formed different places where homo sapiens can breathe. Every populace have their own culture and they have their own life style like way of talking, walking, discipline, dressing, food and languages etc. Many of them are famed for their culture, one of them is Kashmiri culture, and it is well know culture throughout world. Many holidaymakers come from distinct areas of flora and fauna to Kashmir for enjoyment and solace because Kashmir is well known for its unpretentious beauty and culture and well known as paradise on the earth. Scores of sundry holidaymakers have a singled out to build a living wage in Kashmir because the Kashmiri culture entices them.
Pertinently, Kashmiri culture is well known as central Asian culture. It is famed for its speech that is (Koshur). This speech is only used in Kashmir, and it can spoken only by Kashmiri of any religion. The dance is the eminent in Kashmir valley mostly the Dumbalie is acted by Kashmiri men and Rauf by Kashmiri women’s and folk dance is another traditional dance of Kashmir. The dressing is inimitable of men’s and women’s in kashmir when they act they wear (FARAN) and (DUSTAR). The (FAIRAN) is the dress and is recycled in winters because of the freezing. It is elongated dress and blinkers the whole body and to guard the body. The Kashmiri women’s chiefly wear a designed (Fairan), these are designed with hand by lovely fine art. When tourists visit this valley, they scuff Kashmiri jewelry and costume to take photographs. The soothing Kashmiri music, (Sufiana) is the famed music in Kashmir and spectators go bottomless in sufiana music and they enjoy it wholly. The musician use some typical Kashmiri Musical instruments like rabab, baja, tumbakhnari etc.
Kashmir is chock-full of beautiful cultures. Kashmiris are considered the best hosts all over the world. As in rural areas they venerate all human being alike, always offer them for brew and nourishment either they know them or not and always aiming to make a brotherhood and cheerfulness all here with everyone. When the tourists realize the hospitality of Kashmiri they prefer to come again and again which is delightful for Kashmir and Kashmiri peoples.
On the other hand, the dishes in Kashmir are famous all over the world, and Kashmiri wazwan is representative of it. Wazwan is mostly grilled when the marriage ceremony or other ceremonies are celebrated. Kashmiri Wazwan contain RISTA, GUSHTAB, KABAB, SHAMI KABAB, CHICKEN, MEAT ETC. These are all non- vegetables nourishments and full of taste. When the tourists chomp those dishes their remark is usually (WAH WAH KYA MAHZA). This indicates they like Kashmiri wazwan and want more and more. Collard greens (hak) is famous vegetable dish of Kashmiri, it is simply a green dish and cooked usually in homes and is good for health.
The nun chai (Salt Tea) is integral part of breakfast of Kashmiri and is the main identity of culture of Kashmiri. The Kashmiris drink it in the morning and in evening, it contains salt, milk and dry leaves. It is just full of taste. The another tea is Kashur Khwah, and it is formed lacking of milk and, it contains ingredients which support to make it tasteful like dry fruits, KESAR, sugar ETC.
Kashmir is well known for its diverse climatic seasons, few months are very chilly and also for enjoyment that’s WINTER months. The KANGRI, life of Kashmiri in winters, it provides heat all time . Kashmiris design it with their own hands with a fine art and use sticks and mud pot for making it, carry it everywhere they want to go as it is light in weight.
Dal Lake is the one of the most beautiful and picturesque lakes in India. It is surrounded with mountains and houseboats cruising along the lake in the colorful Shikaras. The Shikaras is another culture and is used for multiple purposes, including transportation. The driver use oars to run the shikara having spade-shaped bottom row. Half a dozen peoples, with the driver seats are present in shikara. It is made up of wood and is type of wooden ship.
The Kashmiri culture always entices the natives & tourists, and considered to be the pride and dignity of nation……

Menace of facebook in Kashmir





writes Malik Sameed
Facebook is the most used social networking website in the world. The founder of the Facebook is Mark Elliot Zuckerberg and is born in 14 may 1984. He is an American computer programmer and launched Facebook in February 2004 in his dormitory room. The motive of Facebook is to connect the people from one edge of world to other like to know the culture, language, living style etc. But regrettably some users use Facebook with other philosophy, the manner it is used even religions conflicts will be created. Mostly Those pages are created which are completely against the law and making a joke of holy religions. Nobody can bear them as they are against their respective religions and use bad words. These dirty pages are created by some unknown miscreant and then we comment on these pages and use bad words but we don’t know that if we comment on this it will share on our profile and everybody can see this.
In world, virtually more than 750 million active users 50% users log on to Facebook in every given day and spends more than 700 billion minute per months on facebook. As far as Kashmir is concerned the impact of facebook on youth is very destructive. These sites, designed to increase ease of information sharing online and help keep persons connected in ways previously impossible, have become an almost indispensable piece of most kashmiri students’ lives. The users spend more time on facebook and can’t concentrate on their studies. As the parents think our wards are collecting information from facebook but their concept is erroneous. Virtually 70% of users in Kashmir use facebook for useless chatting and wastes their precious time. They make friends from other country but not to know the culture but to impress the girls. Mostly if the girl is ugly and not that type which are standard for a boy to marriage, they have many requests as compare to handsome boys because the youth of our generation refer to chat with those girls whom are stimulating and endearing to chat with them and the chat is simple like WHAT IS UR HOBBY, CAN U BE MY FRIEND and she says ok sure and then after a boy gets chance, after some chat he directly states her that WILL U BE MY life partner. Those words are true and I have seen what the today’s youth do to impress, do different tricks to get a girl and start flirting, exchange their numbers and spent more time on phone, forget their books and aim of his life.
Facebook has many merits like to promote business with the help of page and to know the culture of other peoples like way of talking, language, food etc. But the current generation didn’t take advantages of facebook and they are busy with their style of facebook. We have seen that if the mother was calling his ward for food and he or she was busy in using facebook, they shout on his or her mother. No religion has taught us that we are allowed to shout on our mother. The value of a mother in the sense of today’s youth is very fluff. They don’t give respect as they have to give. Facebook is good for Kashmiri youth but way of using the facebook is not good.
As many of our youth is using facebook when they are in classroom, the teacher was teaching and they were busy in facebook that means wastage of money, time, and the result at end is zilch and after that they cannot recover themselves, continuing the misappropriation of facebook. The hopes of parents are very high on their wards but regrettable their wards don’t execute their hopes due to wastage of precious time on facebook . The impact of facebook on Kashmiri youth is very destructive as compared to youth of other state or country.

IS KASHMIR SHINING OR SPARKING




I don’t know when. I don’t know where. But something bad is going to happen.” And everyone else is saying, “Wait a minute, are you working with Miss Cleo or something? What is this, the Central Intuitive Agency?” . . . And you have Bush, hearing about all the fighting over Kashmir, and saying, “What? It’s just a sweater!
Robin Williams
Malik Sameed
Kashmir is well known as jannat- firdous on account of its natural beauty. It is surrounded by beautiful mountains and superb Dal Lake is another weapon of Kashmir which attracts tourists all over the world. Tourists from different areas come to Kashmir to fulfill their dreams and forget sad moments of life. From one side of Kashmir it is shinning in every given day as in beauty but on other edge Kashmir is going back day by day. The shine is going very dim in all circumstances and is going backward due to some useless changes in system. The life of commoner is getting tough and a number of hurdles in every step of life and can’t adjust themselves in their own hometown and prefer to make his living place outside the Kashmir because of lack of facilities.

The leader is main person of state who can make his judiciary better than other states but regrettably in our part of the world they make money for their own pocket and that thing effects lot to present generation of humans and ruin their future due to leaders. Related to this we also find that the Kashmir has become the dispute for India and Pakistan due to that reason the development is not going well as it can be, out of this only the kashmiri is facing lot of hurdles and lost precious lives and property.
From last so many decades on account of lingering conflict, Kashmir has lost many lives, many children’s has became orphanage, many women have become widows and many parents have lost their wards or we can say stick for their old age, who is responsible for it, the question is haunting our mind and some out of us give their words about the issue and some blames one person and some other. As we see in all communities they have cooperation with each other and that is the reason they were successful in every field, and as if take Kashmir into consideration they don’t have any kind of cooperation with one another. The people come into the streets to protest for their right but regrettably they enjoy it and start throwing stones and they are met with brute force as they shoot with bullets and then we lose our brothers, may be from those brothers they can be future for Kashmir.
As all knows that the Kashmir has lot of talent in all circumstances but they don’t get a chance to express their talent and finally they use their talent for other state. From the other hand a student’s prefer to study outside from their hometown because of many reasons like bad situation and exposure which is not present in Kashmir. Why our Kashmir is not forward than other states? The answer is simple our Kashmir has become issue for india and Pakistan and they both want Kashmir and result of their conflict become target of youths of Kashmir.

This article is written by bureau chief Chandigarh
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Kashmiri-Outside Kashmir




writes Malik Sameed
What is success? I think it is a mixture of having a flair for the thing that you are doing; knowing that it is not enough, that you have got to have hard work and a certain sense of purpose.” -Margaret Thatcher
The humans always prefer to go safe place where they can live their better and joyfullife. The place where they can formulate themselves educated or where they get good salary to run their family. Urban areas have much better facilities than rural areas like roads, hospitals, education and most important exposure and job facility. Parents prefer to send their wards outside for better studies, for their stick in old age and invest money on them only for their future. The journey of modern student is very interesting in some circumstances like all the facilities available in every step of his journey as compared to aged ones.
As far the Kashmir is concern many students prefer to study outside the Kashmir because of exposure and some circumstances. Students prefer to go to different states of India for better infrastructure and placement. While they venture out of their homes, to fulfill dreams, they face hurdles in every step of their carrier. India is a country that contains 86% of Hindus and 13% of Muslims only, so the valuable thing in their life is nimaz but unfortunately those students can’t prepare themselves for nimaz and reason is their college and hostel. As I have personal seen that when the students were ready to offer a nimaz on Friday and firstly they have to make a gate pass, then signature of director or principal takes lot of time while questioning of their jury’s members like why are you going for prayer?Is it compulsory or sometimes they tell classes are important than nimaz. So we can imagine that how much those students tolerate against their religion. As the students want to get more percentage but unfortunately due to their internal marks their percentage comes very down and can’t make their future at low percentage.
As the incident of Kamran Mudasir, a Kashmiri student of PhD killed in Hyderabad shows that Kashmiri is not safe outside the Kashmir, due to this incident the parents have call back their wards towards home and they spoil their future only for their life. A well know friend of mine Imran student of Punjab technical university told that every second person of his college treat him as a terrorist because he is a Kashmiri. They treat every Muslim of Kashmir as a Terrorist and due to that Imran got low marks in internal exams as compared to other boys, due to biased treatment towards Kashmiri Student.
Everyone has right to live their life with happiness and without any tension than why Kashmiri are not safe outside the Kashmir?That is the point of prestige and government should take action on this.
Another incident of dehradun where 16 students were beaten by shiv-sena and then these students were detained in their college is a standing example of injustice against the Kashmiri students and also we can realize that they are not safe. All I end is that it is high time for the government to act over such issues.
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Love and Religion


Malik Sameed

Love is relationship of heart to heart. It is the stout relationship in every core of humans as well as animals. Love has different types like parents love, brothers love, friends love, husband, wife love and boy, girl love and the today’s generation love has became mold of homo species all throughout the flora and fauna. Love has occupied a unique place in humans. The relation matters a lot in world and most of things are contingent on relation. As all in religions today fashion boy and girl love became traditional in many religions and is demarcated in different forms, allow in maximum religions but in Islam love before marriage is forbidden and completely denied.
Islam teaches us to be truthful and realistic. Islam teaches us that a male and can build a relation after marriage but unfortunately in many Muslims communities it is became the fashion and daily work of male or female. Many Muslims have forgotten that it is forbidden or we can say haram. In Islam there is no such thing as a girlfriend- boyfriend relationship. In the today’s fast generation the love has taken place in heart of Muslim people, every corner is covered with relation of boy and girl.
This relation goes against that relation which is from beginning of their life that is parent’s relation. Maximum number of wards goes against their parents even they leave home, forget their parents love, respect and most important put down their image in the society. The question is that why they forget parents love and why they are ready to leave their home and forget all that moments when the parents do everything for them and when a mother bear nine months pain only for his child even when his child was ill and a father rounded different doctor, peer only for his child. So with one sin they do another one. In today’s generation lot of love marriages are still going and their parents can’t do anything. If they will told something to their wards and the answer from their side is we will kill ourselves if you don’t agree and the parents go against the Islam for their wards and if they take some action unfortunately their wards do that thing which hurts their parents like hell even they leave the home and go far away with his lover and down their parents respect in society. Love before marriage kill lot of life’s.
The life given by Allah is precious gift for us and why we people make it uncomfortable and useless. Now a day’s many Muslims kill themselves because of love, many incidences still going in different areas of world and they make life a joke.
A Muslim woman’s prerogative to choose her own mate is also demonstrated by the absence of any reference to her father or guardian from practically all the Qur’anic verses on marriage and divorce. In Islam If a man feels some attraction toward a woman whom it is permissible for him to marry her, and vice versa, there is no answer to the problem except marriage. The Prophet (peace and blessing of allah be upon him)said: “We do think that there is anything better for those who love one another than marriage.” Narrated by Ibn Maajah, 1847; classed as Saheeh by al-Busayri and by shaykh al-Albaani in al-Silsiah al-saheehah, 624). However but if that marriage comes about as a result of an illicit love relationship, such as when they meet and are alone together and kiss one another, and other haram actions, they will never be stable, because they committed actions that go against islam and bulid their lives on things that will have the effect of reducing blessing and support from Allah. Make your life better for Judgment because no one has to live here, one day we all have to leave these fake trends of world.

Music: Haram in Islam




Writes Malik Sameed
“Music sows hypocrisy in the heart like water causes seeds to grow in the soil.”
(The Blesses prophet S. A. W)
The revere of religions in all hominids is very elevated. The lord has divided populace in different religions like Islam, Hinduism, Christianity, Sikh etc. The revere for all religion is same in my eyes. The lord has made different rubric in religions and if someone breaches those he will be chastised in judgment day. Everyone has respect towards their religion and knows the chastisement of transgression but regrettably maximum continue iniquity even they know that it is against our religion. From those religions Islam is one of the leading Muslim populations all over the world. The laws are very strict in Islam like for women, they have to cover their whole body and only eyes are permitted to open even not allowed to see other man except his husband. As per Islam men has to cover his head with different head covers all the time except night. The duty as we can say Faraz of Muslim is Nimaz, the Muslim has to adoration five times a day to Allah.
The music is one of the sins in Islam and is fully against the music, declared as forbidden or Haram. The duff one side dram is only allowed in Islam but regrettably maximum Muslims know that we are going against the Allah but they continue to listening and playing music without the fear of Allah. Music has dramatic impact on almost every Muslims. In today’s generation it becomes the major driving force of Muslims and thinks it gives much needed enthusiasm and refocuses ideas on every field of life. The music is become living part of Muslim even they cannot leave it for a minute. As the invention of mobile phone the music is become traditional culture of maximum Muslims. Where they will go the music is with them like if they will travel from one place to another the new system earphone are always in their ears to continue to listen music all the journey even I have seen different people listen music when they are in bathroom. So we can imagine that how much we are in water about religion. The Allah has given everything to us to live better life and the message of Allah is only that follow Quran sharief we will be successes in world and also in final exam of human.
As the quran says “And of the people there is he who buys a ‘vain talk’ so that he may lead others astray from the path of Allah without (real) knowledge & takes it (the revelation of Allah) for a mockery; for these shall be a disgracing chastisement (punishment).
As far as the Muslim community is concerned the western culture is adopted by people and every corner of world is dominated by music. The newly music bands are established in every place of Muslim countries, without music the marriage has became incomplete in sense of many attendants of marriage ceremony, and spend more and more money for useless music and entertainment all because of their relatives and friends but regrettably they forget the message of Allah and continue to perform sin for the sake of happiness and amusement .Music has spread to such an extent that it is affecting every Muslim in this modern era .No matter which direction we go, we are blasted with music which is prevalent in our society posses a tremendous danger for Muslims. Every Muslim is fully aware of the fact that music is haram in ISLAM. The music is now become the money making work, almost in every corner of Muslim community has their music bands and make money.
The music is tool of shaytaan (satan), according the law of Islam one who participates in music is regarded as a fasiq (sinful person).it attracts people to commit wrongful acts. One of harms of music is that it distracts one from his creator.
The message is simple forget music and think about your judgment and one day we all have to leave this journey of life.

Life of prisoner



Malik Sameed

Only free men can negotiate; prisoners cannot enter into contracts. Your freedom and mine cannot be separated–Nelson Mandela
All comers has right to live their life with happy moments. Most has fantasized to make comfortable set down where they breathe happy life. Sundry of them can’t make because of unemployment and poverty but can make at their echelon. Everyone wants to free, no limitations, not any barrier but some are those which have no freedom, they can’t live their life with their rights and choice, those are prisoners. They are alive in world and takes place but regrettably they are always in one room called cell room and without light, bed, and a trivial window where they perceive when sun rises and sunsets. They work almost 7 hours in a day and allowed once a day to go washroom and for other purpose. They are not allowed to go outside without permission of concern officer. The rules and regulation are very stern even they will punish if they don’t work as they expected.
The common man can never stay on one place throughout day. Everyone prefers to race with time and wants more and more. No doubt that prisoner has done sin but we should not hate prisoner, we should hate sin. The question is that why they do sin, what the reason is behind. My opinion is that some prisoners commit sin under the influence of circumstances, but others commit a crime. Without God nobody has supremacy to scan human. Far away from home, the time they spend inside jail, influence their mind and force them to think that because of their acts and deeds, not only their life gets affected but it engulf everyone single person associated with him; be their kith and kins.
The cell room is surrounding with black walls made up of metal, cot a sink and a toilet very low space. They give them one blanket and pillow and most important they give them Quran, Bible or Geeta as per the religion. Most of them become good person and some become bad. I remember when a person from Srinagar got released after 2 years from jail, he was totally changed. First he was doing bad things like to hurt everyone, breaks the rules and law of government. Simply he was rude and useless guy for everyone even also for his family. Then after when he comes out from jail I was surprised that he had reformed and became religious person and offer five times nimaz and recite Quran. In a sense, his behavior was totally different and full of positives as respected elders, loved young ones . When I enquired with him his answer was so sweet as he stated before going to jail he was not respecting anyone and was living my life without any tension, with nice food and nice sleeping bed and in jail he had struggled lot and witnessed different problems like food and everyday hard work all over, he stated that he was not allowed to go outside because he didn’t have the requisite permission and he was happy because he thought he had achieved reformation and liked to pray and read Quran sharief, now his family is happy for him, his friends even everyone and now feel proud and he feels the world is full of writhe and we have leave everything here except our prayers. Everything else had to be earned by good behavior.
One can only infer that Don’t hate prisoner but hate crime because prisoner is also our brother or sister and stop them to do crime, to become prisoner because the life is given by the Allah is precious gift for us and we have to use it in good way all the time. This article is all I write is all about that we should prepare for struggles too because life presents its own challenges

Hostel life




writes Malik Sameed
Life is a precious gift given by God and the style of life like how to live better life, how to make different thing in life is all about a human. The human has to decide that what will I do in future and what is better place where I can study without any disturbance of anyone and he leaves his home with the intention of excelling in the studies and just parts away from his family and friends with hope that he can make his life comfortable in the society with lot of dreams in his mind. He wants a place where he can fulfill his dreams and can achieve a goal that he wants to achieve. Finally he decides to take a hostel where he thinks that I can achieve my goal.
When he enters in the hostel, new place, new environment and sees different things around, don’t know how to adjust in this atmosphere and how to make a new friends that can help him in studies and many things and then mess tension like how is food there but finally he adopt these things with that hope that he will catch his dreams very well. Hostel life is better for those whom have come to study because hostel is place where life comes into the tract and things get streamlined.
After sometime he realize that life in a hostel is very different from that of the home like he thinks hostel life is independence like you may sleep whenever you want, You may get up late in the morning but none will question you and due to that reason many students do not like to go home, even in long vacations because they like hostel life. The students first think that hostel is better atmosphere to study. If student enjoy hostel life in different ways, they also work hard when the time comes for it. But at other hand the poor quality of the food of the hostel damages the health of a student as he first expected that this food is good as home but unfortunately due to poor quality of food many students leave hostel and stay outside in flat and prefer to cook themselves because when health is good everything will be good.
On the other hand, many parents are agreeing to send their wards to hostel for study, but many wards waste their time in enjoyment and merry making. They waste their precious time and waste their parent’s money and spoil their life like they start getting addicted to bad habits like the smoking, gamble and at times even drink and mostly they visit cinemas and become a routine.
Finally the outcome of all these bad activities is that result of their wards is zero and even that they can’t recover themselves and continue to get entrapped in bad developments.
That is the some facts of a hostel life and enjoyable stage of a life where a student can do everything what he wants to do but on limited basis without breaking the rules of a hostel because the rules of a hostel is just like army rules and if someone breaks these rules he will be punished.

Life in a Village




writes Malik Sameed
The life is a gift from Allah and there are different places on this earth where human can live his happy life without any disturbance of any one like in cities, towns, villages. Many people prefer to live in cities because almost all the facilities for humans are present there. The people who are living in urban areas have different thinking as compared to villagers, they are same but have different living style. The villagers have different kind of living style, everybody share their feelings either its happiness or sadness and most important thing is that they are pure hearted and never race with the time, live their life with simplicity without any greediness. Standing in every odd and even time makes them a symbol of unity and brotherhood.
Village Livelihood mostly depends of agriculture. Villages are most famous for agriculture and almost all the cultivation of our living needs like rice, wheat, vegetables is cultivated in villages. It is villagers who feed various towns and cities with the necessities of life. As we can say that village is a collection of small huts made of Mud bricks and hays, in the midst of fields on which the farmers work. The villagers are mostly farmers who reap the money from hard work on their fields. They work all over the year to make their money. As the well know famous poet ‘cowper’ says that “God made the country and manmade the town and village”.
When the villagers wake early in the morning, they listen sweet songs of birds, the villagers enjoy beauty of the rising sun and the sweet breeze of the greenery of fields around them. The villagers are healthy as compared to citizens because in villages there is fresh air, no smoke and without the noise of factories. The benefit for the villagers is like they have their own milk producers that is their pet animals like cow, buffalo. From these animals they get pure milk and ghee which keeps villagers healthy and well toned up, as such they can work very fast and quick without getting tired.
Unlike urban areas where we have electoral form of government; villages is comprised of a “Village Panchayat”. The Panchayat is headed by a Person who is mostly an Elder member of that Village known as Sarpanch. The Sarpanch is empowered to take the decision and forward the village’s problem to the government. The Sarpanch is a respectful person and the peoples are those who make Sarpanch with their votes. The Sarpanch being the head of the panchayat always gives the decision in the favour of truth, and the given decision is the final decision and every villager accepts it.
Villages represent the archetypal scenery of the “Illyria” the land of heart desire. The village is a place where we can live our life with happiness and prosperity. The most important thing in villages is that if anyone has any problem, he is always assisted by every villager who comes to help him in every type of problem. With lot of love in their hearts and the character to keep everyone happy and to treat guests as their own family members; villagers are well known for hospitality.
Most of the peoples leave their village and prefer to migrate in cities for their children’s because cities has well known schools and colleges but they don’t know that if a student has to gain something he can gain in a footpath but the parent are mostly not agreed for that and then the mostly the result is not good. As we can see in our daily life that most of the village school students 

Holy institution of motherhood



writes Malik Sameed
I remember my mother’s prayers and they have always followed me. They have clung to me all my life-Abraham Lincoln
The relationship is that thing, which is heart to heart connection, it is build from heart. Relationship has different types like love, family, and friend relationship, and these relationships mean a lot in life. Out of these relations the relationship with mother occupies the highest value in life of every human being. A mother is a woman who has raised a child given a birth. She is the one who gives us birth and bear the pain nine months all of because his child. She is the one who kept his children away from all problems, and make his children comfortable in society. When the child starts talking, the first word from his mouth is mummy, “why his first word is mummy”? The answer is simple that is because mother is embodiment of sacrifice, love, care and service, and gives her child lot of love and affection. She is selfless and dedicated. When a child toilets during night, mother is the one who prefers sleeping on the wet portion and keeps her child safe by replacing the place with her child. Mother is the one who never sleep when his child is ill and spends too much nights without sleeping.
The mother has different roles – she is a wife, she can be an employee. The life of mother is very difficult to live as every human has a right given by the Allah to live their life with happiness. But the mother has no time for herself, and she always thinks about his family and tries to make them happy in every step of life. She gives sympathy, love and fulfills dreams of their children’s.
In this fast running generation of current world the modern style and fake trends have takes place. As a result, the respect of mother is very down, a behavior of children is not good towards their mother. Almost 70% of children’s behavior is bad, they treat mother as enemy, but the mother bear all that things and always prays for his children’s welfare and success and everyone knows that mother is the one whose prayer is complete and Allah never neglect prayer of mother, she is the one who fulfill the needs like money, clothes and other many things that are useful for a child. A mother reduces her daily needs because of his child. As the old Kashmiri described mother as “mouj ros ghr se mush kus poshishs mouji mouji hey mouji”. These lines mean that without mother in the home, the home is empty and without happiness and without any enjoyment. We can’t share our problem with father like we can’t tell our father directly many a things , it is the mother who listens to us and motivates her husband to fulfill those for you. And never see you sad.
But after the marriage, maximum number of persons forget love and sacrifices of their mother, forgets even those nights when a child was ill and she stayed without sleeping full night because of you. Even that a son nowadays leaves the home because of his wife and spend his life away from the home. And the result of these actions is disastrous because in every religion it is described that who breaks mother’s heart can never succeeded in his or her life.
My Mother is everything for me and I never break heart of my mom

Corruption or Salary in Kashmir




writes Malik Sameed
If a country is to be corruption free and become a nation of beautiful minds, I strongly feel there are three key societal members who can make a difference. They are the father, the mother and the teacher——–Abdul Kalam
The menace of ‘Corruption’ is becoming epidemic all over world and is major issue that adversely affects the society and dynamism of youth. Corruption is the abuse of entrusted power and eventually it hurts everyone whose crucial works depend upon integrity of people in a position of authority. From middle school to district administration maximum employees are not happy with their own salary and want spare to live joyful life and to get more they likely resort to corruption. . In today fast changing world the menace of corruption is mounting day by day without any interference of anyone and as result country is going backward day by day. Almost in every division of government from third class employee to gazetted officer almost majority are making corruptions without any fear of God.
The world has in its fold different countries, one of them India which is well known for corruption all over the world. From India there is a state located on north which is on the second number in corruption ranking among Indian states and that is Jammu & Kashmir and also known as Heaven (Jannat) on account of its gorgeous natural beauty but unfortunately some people have made it corrupt part of world and have taken undue and unlawful advantage of its beauty. One side corruption makes one family happy but on their side a family hasn’t a single house to live and to eat. In our part of the world, the menace of corruption is also the main reason of poverty and unemployment, the life of the people has as a result turned to be tough and crucial even they prefer to die because of poverty, they know that in this corrupt system they can’t run their family, they can’t give required happiness to their growing children’s.
In the education world of in Kashmir I have personally seen that a section of students prefer to pay money for passing the examination, so degree is vending in market at very low price and this is our Kashmir .Another sub-division is our Regional transport office (RTO) huge corruption occur their as they give driving license without any driving test and take money from this fraudulent process and on account of this accidents happen day by day and we lose precious life. Corruption takes unique place in maximum hearts of employees or business men and has almost became a routine job.
It is known fact that corruption increases the cost of business through the price of illicit payment themselves. As I have seen in my personal level the police department has main role in corruption, the police is for our safety but on account of huge corrupt practices has become a hazard for public. Masses also prefer to give money to income tax officer rather than pay tax while if the income tax officer is corrupt then most of them have literally no tension . As per we see the corruption is moving forward very fast I think we will be ranked on first number very soon.
Corruption is the way to get big houses and cars, but at last we have to die and we will not carry these things with us except ourselves and what we have done in our life but unfortunately many people forget sanity while taking corrupt money, In Islam taking illegal money is forbidden and should be punished on Judgment day. The message of this article is stop corruption and think about day of judgment.
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