Wednesday, 22 May 2013

Love and Religion

Malik Sameed

Love is relationship of heart to heart. It is the stout relationship in every core of humans as well as animals. Love has different types like parents love, brothers love, friends love, husband, wife love and boy, girl love and the today’s generation love has became mold of homo species all throughout the flora and fauna. Love has occupied a unique place in humans. The relation matters a lot in world and most of things are contingent on relation. As all in religions today fashion boy and girl love became traditional in many religions and is demarcated in different forms, allow in maximum religions but in Islam love before marriage is forbidden and completely denied.
Islam teaches us to be truthful and realistic. Islam teaches us that a male and can build a relation after marriage but unfortunately in many Muslims communities it is became the fashion and daily work of male or female. Many Muslims have forgotten that it is forbidden or we can say haram. In Islam there is no such thing as a girlfriend- boyfriend relationship. In the today’s fast generation the love has taken place in heart of Muslim people, every corner is covered with relation of boy and girl.
This relation goes against that relation which is from beginning of their life that is parent’s relation. Maximum number of wards goes against their parents even they leave home, forget their parents love, respect and most important put down their image in the society. The question is that why they forget parents love and why they are ready to leave their home and forget all that moments when the parents do everything for them and when a mother bear nine months pain only for his child even when his child was ill and a father rounded different doctor, peer only for his child. So with one sin they do another one. In today’s generation lot of love marriages are still going and their parents can’t do anything. If they will told something to their wards and the answer from their side is we will kill ourselves if you don’t agree and the parents go against the Islam for their wards and if they take some action unfortunately their wards do that thing which hurts their parents like hell even they leave the home and go far away with his lover and down their parents respect in society. Love before marriage kill lot of life’s.
The life given by Allah is precious gift for us and why we people make it uncomfortable and useless. Now a day’s many Muslims kill themselves because of love, many incidences still going in different areas of world and they make life a joke.
A Muslim woman’s prerogative to choose her own mate is also demonstrated by the absence of any reference to her father or guardian from practically all the Qur’anic verses on marriage and divorce. In Islam If a man feels some attraction toward a woman whom it is permissible for him to marry her, and vice versa, there is no answer to the problem except marriage. The Prophet (peace and blessing of allah be upon him)said: “We do think that there is anything better for those who love one another than marriage.” Narrated by Ibn Maajah, 1847; classed as Saheeh by al-Busayri and by shaykh al-Albaani in al-Silsiah al-saheehah, 624). However but if that marriage comes about as a result of an illicit love relationship, such as when they meet and are alone together and kiss one another, and other haram actions, they will never be stable, because they committed actions that go against islam and bulid their lives on things that will have the effect of reducing blessing and support from Allah. Make your life better for Judgment because no one has to live here, one day we all have to leave these fake trends of world.

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